The greatest joy comes when you do a pregnancy test and the results shows a hit!
Just to share with you some of the situations you may face and some queries i may answer.
1st - 2nd Month
You do a pregnancy test kit and realise you are pregnant.
First thing you should do is to "behave pregnant". No more vigarous activities.
Consult a gynae. Get professional advise.
Your gynae may tell you that you now have a waterbag in your womb.
You are pregnant. But, there is no heartbeat.
Don't worry. It's normal. Heartbeat will come around the 2nd month. But what the gynae told you is the truth. You will have to wait till there is a heartbeat before the pregnancy is confirm.
So what can you do?
Behave pregnant! No rough activities, my gynae says no sex for the time being to allow the baby to attach and grow.
Time may pass very slow as you wait for another 2 weeks for the next gynae appointment.
But you will find the heartbeat the next round.
Mummy: Be calm and positive. The human brain is amazing. If you are positive and happy, so will your body. Although it's very tense to wait for the next scan for heartbeat. Please be assured that everyone goes through the same
Daddy: Be the most supportive man in the whole world. Do whatever it takes to make your wife happy. Sometimes you have to repeat the same encouraging words, but do it. Your wife is asking you for support when she repeatively ask the same questions. The women structure is different from man. They go through huge emotional changes, much greater then we can imagine and the only thing we can do is to provide support, support and more support.
Thursday, October 8, 2009
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